I posted a few days ago on my Facebook page "Real men are NOT intimidated by a "self sufficient" woman."Thanks Bruce Lee for being truthful. I hear "single" women screaming ....I'm independent, I'm independent that is why I am single a man is intimidated by ME. Sit down and SHAD UP. You are single because a REAL man is not gonna put up with the drama you bring. A REAL man will protect his woman, fight for his woman, love his woman, hold his woman and laugh with his woman. In the mean time MS. INDEPENDENT can't tolerate this man. She thinks he is weak, a punk, too nice. She wants a THUG. When she gets a REAL man she can/will ruin him. She wants a man to be in her life financially but wants him to sit down and close his mouth when it comes to valid input/insight in her life. MS. INDEPENDENT is often in different "relationship" because she seems to think that she intimidates men.
Let me quickly EDUCATE you...there is a difference in independent and self sufficient. The difference is happiness. An independent woman has no focus and pessimistic, nothing is ever good or right. She is always complaining, there is always some other woman that is jealous or a hater, at least in her mind's eye. She always has some piece of man around that she chose for some weak reason then she disrespects and demasculates him for a weaker reason....to make her feel better about who she THINKS she is or who she wants others to think she is. She lacks self-esteem, purpose or goals. she often adorns her exterior with "things" to cover
Ms./Mrs. SELF SUFFICIENT may or man not have a man at her side. She doesn't always have to prove she is INDEPENDENT by announcing "I'm an independent woman" It is in her stride, her face, her confidence. She WILL follow a man with a plan. She knows her value and so does he. She is confident in who she is and strives to be better. She recognizes her GREATNESS and walks in it. A woman that is self sufficient doesn't need a man to be who she is. She understands that in a relationship that she and her mate both have roles. Where he is weak she is strong and where she is weak he is strong. They compliment eachother.
