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Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Negativity defeats YOUR purpose.

Any complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity.  We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things that you want haven't materialized?  Don't only look at what you do but also what you are saying.

I'm broke....
I don't like my job....
My head is killing me.....
I am tired

We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don't even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative.  I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful or don't fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say," something good is going to happen to me today."  That one little sentence can and will be the shift into the positive.  What IF everyday you did something just a little different, even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them.  Change your lipstick color. Take yourself to dinner. Do something to get of your comfort zone!!
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY.  Take the time to compliment someone else as well.  Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset.  Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special.  We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow?  That is simple..being grateful!  Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it.  That doesn't mean, so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful.  This gratefulness is for you...for life, health well-being, job a place to rest your head.  The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic.  It prevents you from seeing your purpose.  You are not beginning to see a little more clearly.  Your purpose begins to come into view.  You weren't just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING!  You were created to do something special and it may or may not hav anything to do with having a platform to do  anything big.  Your purpose my be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug or some money to one particular person.  Because you are in a negative space you can't see it or miss out.  If you don't do what you are suppose to do then you can't SERVE your purpose in someone else's life and it prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with.  Think about that when you wake up and say,"NOT today, I don't feel like it."

NEGATIVITY DEFEATS YOUR PURPOSE



ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…

We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
- See more at: http://www.mindofadiva.com/life-lessons/negativity-defeats-your-purpose/#sthash.rEEuaX9T.dpuf
ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…

We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
- See more at: http://www.mindofadiva.com/life-lessons/negativity-defeats-your-purpose/#sthash.rEEuaX9T.dpuf
ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…

We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
- See more at: http://www.mindofadiva.com/life-lessons/negativity-defeats-your-purpose/#sthash.rEEuaX9T.dpuf

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