Why ME? Why Not?!

Often times we wonder when things happen to us WHY ME.  What makes us think that we are just that special that things don't happen to us?  We never stop to think WHY when something positive, good, or something that we like or what to happens.  It is like we have some sense of entitlement! 
     How many times have you heard at the right place at the right time?  What about, right in the nick of time?  How about, just missed it?  Positive or negative depends on your state of mind.  The things that you go through, experience, develop your character.  It also puts in the position for what you are destined to do and who you are destined to help. The train that made you reach your destination later than expected, caused you to miss the accident that you could have been included in.  Being in that accident could have injured or killed you preventing you from helping the old lady with her grocery.
We don't know why things just seem to happen to us. There is a reason for everything that occurs. Things just don't happen all the time just because. Sometimes there is a lesson or even up level that occurs that will only happen with this disruption, distraction or interruption of what we BELIEVE should be happening.  Maybe you can't get to where you are trying to go without it, meaning it is NECESSARY for it to occur for you to get the best result. Without pressure there wouldn't be diamonds!
The next time you ask.....why did this happen, why does this have to happen to me....Consider this, why not you. After all you were divinely created for a specific reason to connect with particular people and if it doesn't happen then you can't/won't gain the knowledge, experience, creativity or empathy necessary to service others, fulfill vision, recognize dreams.  With the understanding that your life is NOT just about what you can do for yourself and the people that you are immediately attached to then you will not be so quick to ask WHY ME or WHY.  Instead you will realize a new posture of I GOT THIS.