Negativity defeats YOUR purpose.

Any complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity.  We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things that you want haven't materialized?  Don't only look at what you do but also what you are saying.

I'm broke....
I don't like my job....
My head is killing me.....
I am tired

We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don't even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative.  I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful or don't fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say," something good is going to happen to me today."  That one little sentence can and will be the shift into the positive.  What IF everyday you did something just a little different, even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them.  Change your lipstick color. Take yourself to dinner. Do something to get of your comfort zone!!
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY.  Take the time to compliment someone else as well.  Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset.  Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special.  We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow?  That is simple..being grateful!  Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it.  That doesn't mean, so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful.  This gratefulness is for you...for life, health well-being, job a place to rest your head.  The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic.  It prevents you from seeing your purpose.  You are not beginning to see a little more clearly.  Your purpose begins to come into view.  You weren't just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING!  You were created to do something special and it may or may not hav anything to do with having a platform to do  anything big.  Your purpose my be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug or some money to one particular person.  Because you are in a negative space you can't see it or miss out.  If you don't do what you are suppose to do then you can't SERVE your purpose in someone else's life and it prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with.  Think about that when you wake up and say,"NOT today, I don't feel like it."

NEGATIVITY DEFEATS YOUR PURPOSE

ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…
We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
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ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…
We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
- See more at: http://www.mindofadiva.com/life-lessons/negativity-defeats-your-purpose/#sthash.rEEuaX9T.dpuf

ny complaint that you can think of then say out loud is Negativity. We say it all the time and think nothing of it.  Have you ever wondered why the things you want haven’t materialized? Don’t only look at what you do but also what you are saying:
I’m broke…
I don’t like my job….
Such in such is a terrible boyfriend/girlfriend…
My head is killing me….
I am so tired…
We all do it, COMPLAIN!  We have become so accustomed to it that we don’t even notice that we have slipped into being ungrateful.  When this happens it becomes very simple to plant the seed of negative. I think that in our own minds we set ourselves up to fail by planting negative thoughts because we are concerned what others say if we are happy, are successful,  or don’t fail.
What IF you wake up in a sluggish mood then say,” something good is going to happen to me today.” That one little sentence can and will be the shift into positive.  What IF you took a chance and did something “risky”, not crazy but out of the ordinary for yourself. What IF every day you did something just a little different even special, just enough for you to notice. Maybe polish your toes neon pink in the winter when nobody will see them, change your lipstick color, take yourself to dinner. Do something to get out of your comfort zone.
Next, say something positive about yourself EVERYDAY. Take the time to compliment someone else as well. Once you begin this process, as silly as it seems, you are changing your mindset. Yes, today might have been a bad day, but set your expectations everyday for something good, wonderful, excellent, and special. We are now replacing negativity daily with little seeds of positive.
Now that you have planted the positive seeds, how do you fertilize them to grow? That is simple….being grateful! Gratefulness is being thankful for what you have, ALL of it. That doesn’t mean, we so and so is worst off then me so I am grateful. This gratefulness is for you…..for life, health, well-being, job, a place to rest your head. The things that you have outside of what someone else might NOT have.
Negativity grows wild and chaotic. It prevents you from seeing your purpose. You are now beginning to see a little more clearly. Your purpose begins to come into view. You weren’t just placed here to live a life void of actual LIVING! You were created to do something special and it may or may not have anything to do with having a platform to do big things. Your purpose may be as simple as a smile, hello, compliment, comment, a hug, or some money to one particular person. Because you are in a negative space you can’t see it and miss out. If you don’t do what you are supposed to do then you can’t SERVE your purpose in someone else’s life and that prevents them from SERVING their purpose to whomever they are connected with. Think about that when you wake up and say, “Not today, I don’t feel like it.”
Negativity defeats your purpose!
- See more at: http://www.mindofadiva.com/life-lessons/negativity-defeats-your-purpose/#sthash.rEEuaX9T.dpuf

The State of Relationship

     In a time when so many women are complaining about the quality of men, what I find is the quality of women AIN'T all that either.  There is nothing wrong with being independent but when a man doesn't know where he fits in YOUR world, he is probably gonna step. Another thing, women seem to have a list of things that they want this man to have....but they AIN'T bringing not even half of what they are expecting the man to bring. That is a general statement. Another thing some "independent" women seem to think that when they get a man with some "stature", status or stuff that they have ARRIVED. That is HIS. These are general observations and of course do not reflect all women or the women that I am connected with. There is not a shortage of quality men or women. Women have unfortunately changed and some have lowered their standard to have a man, PERIOD. Some women are so independent they are ALONE.  Being a woman of standard requires you to set a standard and maintain it. As a women I believe it is very important for me to be fit mentally,physically, financially and spiritually.  I have no right to expect that the man in my life has all of those qualities and I am not bringing nothing but my body to the table. Yeah, I said it. Having your own personal happiness is important because in a relationship or not NOBODY can make you happy except YOU.
     For those of you that decided to continue reading....It is important to have a connection with who you are.  It is important to be fulfilled in your own personal space before you invite another person in. That means a mate and even having children. There isn't a thing that has been created that will MAKE you happy.  No amount of shoes, handbags, cars, homes or money can bring happiness.  So the state of relationship is all dependent on your own personal state of mind.  If you aren't happy with your lifestyle that can and will reflect in you exterior(appearance) and interior( emotions and mood).  This aura that presents itself and attracts what you give off.  The Law of Attraction is the belief that like attracts like and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts you can bring positive or negative results.  One could also relate this principle biblical,(Proverbs 18:21) Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. Death and life speaks of positive and negative.
    The state of relationship starts with SELF! What you thing is just as important as what you say because what you think will eventually be said.  Think positively seems simple but is harder than you think.  Write affirmations and post them where you can see them daily.  Maybe you are struggling in school and close to graduation....get a graduation cap or Commencement Ceremony program and display it on a mirror.  You want to loose a little weight maybe put up a picture of you when you weighted less or even someone that you strive to get their size.  Start saying aloud who you are to fight the negativity in your head or even the negativity that other say.   Relate/connect to positive people.  Stop taking calls from negative influences, you would be surprised who your negative influences are. Don't be rude, start talking positive they will either fall off or jump on the positive bandwagon. Start reading positive things, do your research.
Total Law of Attraction by David Che~Amazon
Wanted:Womanhood by Trenace' Carter~  http://www.createspace.com/4086113 and via Kindle
How Love Got Started by Gwendolyn B. Frazier Elmore~  http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615833489/ref=tsm_1_fb_lk and via Kindle
The Power of Positive Thinking
Keys to Happiness
     Finally, start your day in a posture of gratitude! Consider, starting your night before your work week in expectation of an EXCELLENT week.  Start a ritual. Shower before bed then read something positive before you sleep. I am not going to tell you to take your tv out of your room. I didn't! Be cautious of what you watch before you sleep. Meditate/pray then shower before you start your day.  Your home should be your Queendom free from drama and clutter, your bedroom even more so.  Positive energy, positive people, positive thing create a POSITIVE State of Relationship!
Be Happy, Be Authentic, Love Live <3

Peace and Continued Blessings